2009-Dec-7 - The ones that hide at one is side love
Since time immemorial today,offer love realms supreme to make describe celebrities countless: The love is to forget but I am pure, mix the impurity at all. The lofty love can't be weighed with anything and thinged. These exciting description fires the imagination, let people hold high and exert oneself, make people intoxicated. However, these pure and pure love hopes that also always so unconvincing in front of present social actual life. Certainly, we do not object to the artistic works to extol those lofty love that is above the material attractions of the world of praise without exception. Because, people find, the man in the love, like woman, no matter how deep you are easy to have, no matter you like, must it takes to die, live, wake up from a sleep, find everything must spend money, come on, fight, cut originally. " the rich man is not so difficult as money man" ,The ultimate goal of the love is a marriage, and the building on the economic base as the family marriage of social minimum components, destined be unable to escape from the restraint of the material weight.
A lot of women expect to have such a course, how investment marriage does not lose capital; How to carry on the cost accounting of the marriage; It is brightest what kind of man's future is married, the out-and-out one crosses and claims the love, marriage, the calm making the judgement of science, avoid letting oneself become the victims of love and marriage. At present, one TV series heat of " hide " sow, give us represent one scene curtain soul-stirring information cruel scene of battle line, have annotated the common modes of the love marriage and family for us too. This TV play has presented three marriage and family, one is that over are gentle and green and flat, another one is that Wu Jing neutralizes madam, another one is Xie RuoLin and late autumn. Wu of drama the Kuomintang army interconnected system office major general head that Tianjin stand offer, the rules of being officer of him are to love money the Gu 'ses. He says: "Everybody have it while retiring from office, if not no for the money, who will work as this officer. " He has a distinct view on the current political situation, the collapse of the imperial court of the Jiang s firmlies believe to be true, but he is without any change of expression, instigate madam to shift the family property silently, makes preparation for one's own route of retreat. Advise a one's own one over of troop under one's command go, in charge of thing at work those while being flat also, " it is so green and flat that look after, manage your family well " . For the money, he can extort those traitors and illegal capitalists, can line one's pockets from the booty that is captured, because of doing it in this way, dangerous and minimum. He is circumspect and farseeing, but to one's own only clock of the hows and whys of family. It is a troop under one's command in Wu Jing that my one is flat, and then promoted to the vice head, he is that the spy of our party hiding in enemy's heart protects personnel. In order to shield the intelligence work, send organizationally greenly and gently he play the part of false couple, make up the name family. For one's own ideal, for understand person who enlarge, in constrain the lust when gets along with green a flat one he, have no regard for the concept of the family. He says, " the person becoming such work like we is not furnished with the family " ," I am unwilling to let orphan's few mothers burn paper as sacrificial offerings in front of my tomb " . He have only ideal and undertaking in the heart, turn over savings and several gold all brick come to raise that save several year as party membership dues. Xie RuoLin is a spy of the Bureau of Investigation and Statistics of the Central Executive Committee, and a information dealer. He is in the family circumstances decline of late autumn, marry to late autumn while having no way. They both do not not only without emotional foundation but also have a common ideal inclination, if house is only a hotel in the forest for wither. Having left in late autumn, he says that " don't come back after leaving " ," you have walked I have looked for another one " . Cast aside the special environment of ruthless struggle between political standpoint and enemy and us, observe these three families with the sight of actual life, choose men to construct the family with the woman's visual field, who will you choose? A friend is without mincing words, she says, " Wu JingZhong's material benefit, my one is flat to be misty, Xie RuoLin is the rubbish. " Why? Similar to Wu JingZhong through long-time accumulation, the resources have been already well-off, very steady when cutting incomes, successful, have certain social status, it is " good performance stocks " . It can be regarded as at most that my one is flat " Potential stocks " ,Although there is certain development potentiality, uncertainty is great, have very great risks. RuoLin Xie breaking issue price by a fall typical in,etc., want " rubbish stock " that quit listing immediately ,Throw away at once, can't glue it on hand. Hold good performance stocks, peg to potential stocks, or hold potential stocks, peg to good performance stocks, abandon the rubbish stock in time, are all wise choices.
Among the actual life, hide until around love varied, check and calculate love with reason and prospect of marriage whether each man and woman want psychological journey that go through. The famous accomplished lady during the period of the Republic of China Lin Huiyin, admire the a lot of persons who pursue. Among them the most famous one is romantic poet Xu Zhimo and steady and sure scholar Liang Sicheng. That year, in the face of Xu Zhimo's warm pursuit, Lin Huiyin said after pondering deeply, "brother Xu, I am not your another half soul. We are too identical, can't supplement each other. We can only be parallel, can not be crossing. We can only have friendship, there can't be love. " Liang Sicheng asks why choose him, Lin Huiyin says, " this answer is very long, it takes all one's life to answer I. " Many years later, Lin Huiyin says, " whom Xu Zhimo loved at that time is not I who am real, but Lin Huiyin whom he imagined with the poet's romantic mood, but I am not actually that person thinking in his mind. " Someone comments on this marriage wedding, Lin Huiyin has chosen a solid house with intelligence and reason, but not a misty poem.
This is basic quality that a ripe woman should possess to judge the love with reason and intelligence, modern women incline to manage love and marriage with the idea of economics even more, regard choosing man and love as a kind of investment behavior. There is an important concept that lets in economics " The cost of sinking " ,What that is to say to do before not considering while choosing the boyfriend to carry on the investment decision of the love, what are reaped, including how many chances to make friends with with the outstanding man are missed, why after considering make the best result, obtained the largest income. The love is a kind of investment behavior, its earlier stage is put into and included, should lose some free space; Take up some valuable free time; Consume some fund; Put into some emotion; Put some interpersonal relationships of yours,etc. to use. Even got married, has needed to invest some circulating fund to safeguard the marriage. Since make the investment, demand to reciprocate, will weigh in the hand soon the investment project will be made an accurate selection of, it is worth making the investment. The higher the investment yield is, prove investment succeeds. If run into the investment project not reciprocating slowly, might as well accept hands quickly, choose a man or woman instead. Because the love is limited resources, it is paid limitlessly on a man or woman that your energy, time, enthusiasm and fund are impossible, if you want to let the love be lasting, must let both sides of the love accomplish the justice of trying hard, that is to say that manages the principle in effective value in economics.
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